Do men actually like other men? 

A question for thought, do men actually like one another very much? It always seems to me that women liked each other more and had more active actual relationships. Men have alliances, they enjoy playing together in a way that involves practice for competition, they also engage in dominance establishment activities. But to most men other men are always potential rivals. Or allies against other rivals.

There is a camaraderie, and a sort of solidarity, in fact a very strong one. Men seem simpler to one another. In many ways men are less scary to men than are women, less inexplicable, less complicated. Both men and women challenge men’s value, but in different ways. Other men in the way that other swimmers in a race do. Women in the way that the judges at a race do.

Men who seek the company of men find escape from one type of potential threat to their psychology and self esteem, and are often tempted to boast in that context of how successful they are. They may call a truce against

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